The Good, The Bad, The Annoying

April 9, 2008 – 10:17 pm

This cold is feeding on my sleep, my ability to breathe, my sense of taste and smell, and my creativity.  Also, it is leaving me quite irritable (or perhaps that was my lack of sleep making me irritable). So . . . because it is late and I still need to shower before going to bed, here is a list of things that irritated me today. Oh, I have such a cheery blog!

In no particular order::  

~ Asshole decided to merge without looking or using his blinker on 500 tonight. Thank goodness I actually hit my horn, long and hard at him.

~ Driver who didn’t use his blinker on 112th tonight.

~ A classmate who’s been enrolled longer than me but attends school so seldom  she feels that she can ask anyone to instruct her on how to do things.

~ Same classmate who lumps me into her (mid-40’s) age group because I am a handful of years older than a number of our classmates.

~ Same classmate thinking that I should ditch any birthday plans for my own celebration to celebrate someone else’s birthday instead.

~ Tickle in my throat that forced me to run to the bathroom in nearly a drive heave. They always flare up when I get sick.

~ Mike crushing my ailing hydrangea plant with the laundry room blinds today

~ Egg pot of Marigolds only sprouting one single plant.

~ Lack of ability to taste my homemade macaroni and cheese

~ Cheesy early 1990’s special effects in "Total Recall"

~ Sore throat keeping me awake until nearly 4 am

~ Evening flying by too quickly

~ Inability to breathe from one nostril, which chose to jump back and forth between both sides

~ Random neighbor’s car alarm which keeps going off.

~ Purposely misspelled words in an attempt to be cute.  Come on . . . use your letters correctly!

But because the entire day couldn’t be bad -

Highlights of the day::

Weighing low this morning

Doing a decent job on the Shampoo set this morning

Exciting news from my mother

Compliments from my instructor on my first foil highlights. I think they may be a specialty of mine!


Thirty before 30

April 3, 2008 – 12:43 am

Got this from Miss She Likes Purple. My birthday is in 21 days and then, I’ll be in my late twenties and three years away from thirty. Here is a short and reasonable list of things I would like to get done, see happen or achieve before I blow out those fateful candles.

1. Reach and maintain my personal goal weight

2. Clean up my credit and live within my (our) means

3. Learn and master as much of my chosen career as possible

4. Buy a house

5. Buy a Nikon camera

6. Take photography classes

7. Get a (shelter) dog

8. Put together my own scrapbook

9. Go to Hawaii with my husband

10. Meet Mike’s relatives in California and North Dakota

11. Spend a weekend with my work email buddy, sipping wine and having plenty of good laughs

12. Go to Vegas as a legal adult

13. Learn to let some things go

14. Stop criticizing myself so much

15. Spend a weekend in Phoenix with Jenn

16. Maintain a more organized house

17. Continue to grow my recipe collection

18. Keep my hens and chicks collection growing

19. Keep blogging my heart out, especially with interesting topics and not just lists and surveys

20. Get a cholesterol test. It’s been too long.

21. Go on a weekend trip with Sarah and Vanessa, if I can pull them away from their families for that long.

22. Pay off our debts and feel more secure about our finances.

23. Write my novel. Seriously.

24. Clean out my wardrobe of anything I haven’t worn in the last year. What’s the point in keeping it?

25. Become better at managing my time.

26. Read more books.

27.  Stay in better contact with my long distance friends.

28. Become the kind of person that people want to know.

29. Keep the fire burning between my husband and I.

30. Build a better relationship with my brother.


A life worth living

March 26, 2008 – 11:21 pm

It is said that your whole lift flashes before your eyes in those few seconds before you die. Is it snapshots or quick tidbits of motion picture? Is it every single second you lived or just the key highlights? These are some of the moments I hope to see . . .

1. The first time Mike and I saw each other

2. Mike’s and my first kiss

3. Being awarded Top English Student of my graduating class

4. Dancing with my father at my wedding

5. Playing Legos with my brother

6. Sitting on the bridge in Leavenworth, WA with Aja

7. Driving to San Francisco with my mom, stopping for the night in Redding

8. Getting my tattoo

9. Mike proposing to me in the middle of that waterfall

10. Opeing my American Girl "Kirsten" doll on Christmas morning

11. Skinnydipping in Orlando with the girls on our Senior Trip

12. Meeting Nathaniel at the airport.

13. "Martha Stewart" in the mornings with Kristen in college

14. Crossing the finish line at the Avon Breast Cancer 3-Day

15. Fitting into my wedding dress (when I had ordered it entirely too small)

16. Getting my braces off

17. Getting the phone call that I’d been cast in "Anything Goes"

18. Having my first Corona in CA with Nina at 16 at some valley party

19. FCSC crew cruising up Broadway and asking random guys "Are you going to the rave?"

20. NSYNC sign stealing in McMinneville, OR from local McDonald’s

21. That snowy weekend in TH (the last good weekend)

22. Tap dancing my duet with Katie Hudson to "Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy"

23. Taming of the Shrew scene in drama with Tia

24. Scene with Kate in drama freshman year

25. Talking about the same things over and over with Sarahbear and never growing tired of the conversation.

More to come . . .

This is a twist on what Maggie @ Mightygirl.com is doing right now.


Some old, some new - a few best left unshared

March 22, 2008 – 9:09 pm

1. My favorite color has always been purple.

2. My parents were calling me Betsy from the second I was born.

3. In a sonogram, my parents saw me sucking my thumb.

4. I sucked it at night until I was 10.

5. Surprisingly, that wasn’t the reason I needed braces in middle school.

6. I attended 3 different schools where the mascot was an eagle.

7. I attended 3 different schools where the mascot was something else.

8. I’ve been in numerous community theatre productions and high school productions too.

9. I also have years of dance lessons under my belt.

10. I started writing my first novel at age 10. It was pretty bad.

11. I started writing my second novel at age 13. It was even worse.

12. I still have both somewhere.

13. Neither has been completed.

14. I graduated the top English student in my high school class.

15. You would expect my spelling to be stronger and my vocabularly much wider than it is because of that fact.

16. I have one brother and one brother in law.

17. I have a niece named Jasmine.

18. My husband was the one to suggest her name.

19. My first goldfish’s name was Cinderella Snow White Sleeping Beauty.

20. My brother killed her with my Barbie and Ken dolls while I was watching "Little House on the Prairie".

21. I think most beer has a gross aftertaste.

22. The only beer I don’t think has that aftertaste is Guinness.

23. My name is a combination of family names.

24. I am the only direct female descendant of my maternal grandmother.

25. My first cat’s name was Sugar. She was a light brown.

26. My most recent cat’s name was Mimi. She was a deluted Calico

27. I have lived in three states - Colorado, Washington and California.

28. My parents are going on 29 years of marriage.

29. I was married in the church I grew up in.

30. We honeymooned in Vancouver, British Columbia.

31. My husband is the first (and only) man named Mike I have ever dated.

32. I have dated two Seans,

33. two men with the last name of Smith

34. and two men with the middle name of Michael.

35. I cannot do a cartwheel.

36. But I still was a cheerleader in high school.

37. I used to fantasize about being an orphan and going to boarding school.

38. I blame it on "Annie" and "A Little Princess".

39. I love my mother dearly. She is awesome.

40. I have always been predominantly attracted to Irish looking men - redheads especially.

41. My husband has that smoldering Black Irish look going.

42. I took Sign Language in high school as my foreign language.

43. I don’t remember most of it now, but I plan to relearn it.

44. I actually have a fantastic memory for most things.

45. My grandmother taught me how to knit two years ago and I instantly fell in love with it.

46. I am a sucker for any song that has awesome harmonies in it.

47. The only instrument I learned how to play was the recorder in elementary school.

48. I can rock "Hot Cross Buns" like nobody’s business.

49. Looking back now, I wish I had taken up the violin.

50. I bite my fingernails and the surrounding cuticle. I hate that habit.

51. I have cool steel blue eyes

52. I am a Taurus and every bit the stubborn bull you’d expect a Taurus to be.

53. I born a redhead and would love to get that color back.

54. I am not a particular fan of my freckles

55. But I do have these clusters of freckles on my shoulders that I love that I call my "Irish clusters"

56. I only started liking (and eating) salads about a year ago.

57. I tend to have piles and piles of paperwork and junkmail around the house that drives me absolutely crazy.

58. I barely speak to my childhood best friends.

59. I am fiercely close to my best friends from high school and after

60. Generally, I can fit in and get along with anyone.

61. Sometimes, I love to drive the speed limit with someone attempting to speed and is stuck behind me.

62. I love French toast, french manicures, French fries, French twists and French kissing, but have no particular fondness for France itself.

63. I am right handed

64. But I snap louder with my left hand.

65. I’ve worn glasses or contact lenses since I was in fifth grade

66. Both cars I’ve owned have had nicknames - its a family tradition.

67. I love looking at maps.

68. I had to delete Google Earth off my computer because I wasted too much time on it.

69. My favorite cookies are snickerdoodles.

70. I have been blogging on one web journal site or another since 2000.

71. I love makeup and dress up and all things girly

72. I enjoy wearing holiday socks on the wrong holidays and random days in between. They fit well in boots.

73. I go through a pair of black boots just about every year.

74. I especially enjoy snow days and rainy days, but mostly from inside a warm place with a great window.

75. Someday, I will see Ireland.

76. I prefer Diet Coke to Diet Pepsi and actually drink diet sodas for the taste.

77. I have a random collection of and adoration for penguins that started when I went to the Central Park Zoo in 1995.

78. I have six piercings and one tattoo.

79. The best fights I have with my husband are in my head. I always win those too.

80. I adore the sound of Otis Redding’s voice.

81. For a long time, I wanted and planned to be an actress on Broadway.

82. I knew I wanted to marry my husband within the second month we were dating.

83. I have a mole on my stomach and according to moleosophy, "A mole on the stomach signifies one who has everything going for them; your life will be smooth and safe. This is a very lucky mole and is better if small."

84. I do find moles on the face somewhat annoying, especially on foreheads.

85. I am not generally thrilled with the way my faces looks when I smile in pictures

86. I’ve never truly known what it is like to have a grandfather - both of mine passed before I was born.

87. People who deliberately and continually draw attention to themselves frustrate me.

88. People who have massive chips on their shoulders frustrate me even more.

89. I cannot stand having to repeat myself.

90. I always wanted to have a purple car when I was in high school

91. I’d love to get a Cairn terrier someday soon, but plan on getting a shelter dog if/when we do

92. Mike and I both plan on buying Priuses for our next cars. (Matching maybe????)

93. When I was a little girl, I wanted to have 100 girls and 1 boy

94. Nowadays, I’d be happy with two kids

95. I sometimes find spite to be a wonderful motivator

96. I hold grudges entirely too long.

97. I am a nightowl and love sleeping in late

98. My mom (and therefore since I have the recipe, me) makes the best macaroni and cheese

99. I love traditions.

100. I struggle at times with being the lesser attractive one in the couple, but hey, I got a really hot husband. Somehow, I’ll deal.

 


Our one little luxury . . .

March 7, 2008 – 1:50 pm

 

We are still very much enjoying our Blockbuster movie pass and though I am about to rework our budget, since I am having to cut my hours short at work for school, I will do everything in my power to keep this going.

Currently have, waiting to watch:

The Prestige

Death to Smoochy

30 Days of Night - I think we’ll be watching this tonight when I get home from school. Manicures and vampires in the same night . . . I’ve died and gone to heaven!!

Coming up In Our Queue

  1. Terminator 2: Judgment Day - Of the three movies in the series, this is the most well known, and therefore, is of course the one I haven’t seen.
  2. The Terminator (Short Wait) – I don’t remember if I have seen the end of this one or not. Mike thought it would be a good idea to rent all three at the same time and make a marathon of it or something. Ha.
  3. Terminator 3: Rise of the Machines
  4. Hairspray - I saw the original with Ricky Lake and Vitamin C and Sonny Bono. Thought maybe I should see the updated musical version because I already have ‘You can’t stop the beat’ stuck in my head.
  5. Mr. Brooks – Big name actors in a movie filmed in Portland! And it’s scary! Woo hoo!
  6. Marilyn Hotchkiss Ballroom Dancing and Charm School – I saw a preview for this on another movie we rented and knew it was one that I would want to watch with my mom. So I added it. It looks cute.
  7. Resident Evil: Extinction - Love the Resident Evil movies, for some unexplainable reason. I finally saw the second one on TV last month and threw this one on because I cannot wait another two years for the Sci-Fi channel to finally get rights to show it.
  8. Children of Men - Mike’s choice, but I am eager to see it. Clive Owen is yummy, in a manly way.
  9. Total Recall - Another of those movies Mike is questioning his marriage to me over, because I haven’t seen it. Don’t particularly have an itching to see it, but I will indulge him. It might be good.
  10. Across the Universe – This looks so sweet and full of Beatles songs . . . can’t go wrong
  11. Gone Baby Gone – Mike hates Ben Affleck, but I assured him that a movie directed by him cannot be the same as a movie starring him. I am praying I won’t have to eat my words
  12. We Own the Night – Anything with Irish ties makes me happy. Even if they are Irish Mob ties.
  13. American Gangster (Long Wait) – My brother said it wasn’t bad
  14. Becoming Jane – Anne Hathaway I love and I thought this would be cute to see.
  15. White Noise 2 – Mike and I liked the first one (shut up!) and this one stars the guy from "Firefly" and "Serenity"
  16. Buffy the Vampire Slayer – As much as I love, adore, quote and live by the tv show, I have never seen the movie all the way through. I had read that Joss Whedon was not happy at the campy direction the director took the movie in and a part of me has always hoped he’d go back and remake the movie as he had intended it to be. I mean, it’s been 16 years. No one would blame him, right?
  17. Children of Dune – Disc 1 (Very Long Wait) – Mike’s choice. I am less than thrilled
  18. Children of Dune – Disc 2 (Very Long Wait) – See above.
  19. Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead – Yeah . . . haven’t heard of it, but it stars Gary Oldman and Tim Roth, so it can’t be all that bad, right?
  20. Michael Clayton – because I never got around to seeing it in the theater. Either of the times that it was released.
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Window shopping

February 27, 2008 – 10:53 pm

I know it’s still a little less than two months away, but for once, I am thinking about what I want for my birthday.

Coach "Lexi" Sunglasses. Because everyone knows, or should know, that bigger sunglasses protect that fine sensative skin around your eyes. Protected skin = no crow’s feet. You can keep your cat eye glasses. I’ll take younger looking skin.

Coach "J" Charm. I have the "B". I have the "F". All I need is the "J" to complete my monogram.

iPod socks. I had one for my iPod Mini, but gave it to Mike.

iPod docking stereo. Now that Mike and I both have our own iPods, it would make sense to have something that we can plug them into and listen to while cooking dinner or "geeking out" as we call wasting time on the computer/Playstation.

Taylor Swift Taylor Swift
Carrie Underwood Carnival Ride
Sara Bareilles Little Voice

I’ll add to this as I think of more.

6 days until I start school!!! Sooooo excited!


To Do list for this week

February 19, 2008 – 9:34 pm
- To Do list -

1) Clean out car, including trunk (deadline Monday)

2) Compile songs for wedding photos DVD (Wednesday)

3) Finish wedding album, so the photographer can send them to the printer (Thursday)

4) Put a bigger dent into the budget book I’m ready (Tuesday)

5) Add Otis Redding and Johnny Cash CDs to iPod. (Monday)

6) Go get Out of State Resident Tax forms from the library (Monday)

7) Find the desired cart for class and have Dad drill holes into it for the security bar. (Friday)

8) Start rounding up quarters for the meter. (Monday)

9) Bake cookies for my trip to Seattle next weekend (Thursday)

10) Make packing list for Seattle (Tuesday)

11) Coordinate plans with Lizzie (Wednesday)

12) Get Evie Webb’s new address. (Monday)

13) Find more hours to fit into the day. (Yesterday)


A few things I love

February 14, 2008 – 10:28 am

A few things I love

Diet Coke.

French fries.

Sleeping in.

Oven-baked cookies.

Flannel sheets.

The smell of sunshine on my skin.

A great hair day.

A great skin day.

Unexpected weight loss.

A favorite pen.

When a plan falls into action.

Falling deep into Mike’s arms.

Cheap chocolate, like in the coins.

Expensive chocolate.

Continual favorite songs on my iPod shuffle.

Traffic-less days.

Snow falling.

Friendly kitties.

Mom’s macaroni and cheese

A long evening with lovely friends and excellent conversation.

Kindred spirits.

Knowing I can tell Sarah anything and she’ll understand me.

Flowers blooming.

Christmas morning.

Ruby kisses.

Larkin snuggles.

Jasmine calling me "Aunt Betsy"

Being best friends with my mom.

Making my dad so proud of me.

Being Mrs. Michael Frey.


Timekiller

January 10, 2008 – 11:15 pm

1. Do you like blue cheese? I prefer Gorgonzola

2. Have you ever smoked heroin?  Nope

3. Do you own a gun? No - but we have samuri swords!

4. Your favorite song?  Baby Girl

5. Do you get nervous before doctor appointments?  Not really, more so afterwards, if we are waiting on test results

6. What do you think of hot dogs? Kind of gross, but every once in awhile, I really crave them

7. Favorite Christmas song?  Carol of the Bells

8. What do you prefer to drink in the morning? Water

9. Can you do push ups?  IMaybe fifteen "girly" ones at a time

11. What’s your favorite piece of jewelry? My wedding set

12. Favorite hobby?  I have about three or four I rotate through

14. Do you have A.D.D.? No

15. What one trait do you hate about yourself? I procrastinate and put things off when they get too hard

16. What is your middle name? June

17. Name 3 thoughts at this exact moment…
1. Why aren’t I hungry
2. I hope I left that bag at work and not in the parking lot
3. When is Mike going to get home?

18. Name 3 things you bought yesterday?.
1. Weekly admission to Weight Watchers
2.
3.

19. Name 3 drinks you regularly drink.
Diet Coke, Crystal Light and water

20. Current worry right now? Losing weight, but not my hair

21. Current hate right now? The weather. I want snow!!

22. Favorite place to be? Bed. (take that however you want)

23. How did you bring in the New Year? With Mike, Sarah and Rob, Cory and Greg

24. Where would you like to go? Sedona in May, Watkins Glen in July and back to California sometime this year.

25. Name three people who will complete this?
1.  Samantha
2. Sarah
3. Lindsay

26. Do you own slippers? Several pairs

27. What shirt are you wearing?  brown tank top with a maroon henley over it

28. Do you like sleeping on satin sheets?  not particularly

29. Can you whistle? Not well

30. Favorite color? Purple, red and black

31. Would you be a pirate? Elizabeth Swann Turner!!!

32. What songs do you sing in the shower? Whatever Sugarland song is on the cd player

33. Favorite girl’s name? Natalie, Tess, Grace

34. Favorite boy’s name? Lucas, Colin, Michael

35. What’s in your pocket right now? lint

36. Last thing that made you laugh? Vanessa’s text message to me

37. Best bed sheets as a child? kitty cat flannel ones

38. Worst injury you’ve ever had? Still waiting for my wrist to fully heal and my back injury was awful

39. Do you love where you live? Everything but the parking

40. How many TVs do you have in your house? 2

41. Who is your loudest friend? Aja can get pretty loud when she’s passionate about what she’s talking about

42. How many dogs do you have? None

43. Does someone have a crush on you? Mike’s more than smitten

44. Favorite book? In The Country of the Young by Lisa Carey

46. What is your favorite candy? KitKats

47. Favorite Sports Team?  Not really a sports fan. I guess Blazers

48. What song do you want played at your funeral?  Blackbird

49. What were you doing 12 AM last night?  getting kicked off the computer to go to bed

50. What was the first thing you thought of when you woke up?  Why are they talking to Omarosa?


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